Self-Sabotage Explained: Why You're Blocking Your Own Success

Special Guest: Tom Fortes Meyer

 

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Are You Sabotaging Your Own Success? How to Stop the Self-Destruction and Take Control of Your Life

In this provocative episode of the *Human Potential Podcast*, we tackle one of the most frustrating yet common struggles: self-sabotage. I’m joined by renowned healer and transformational coach, Tom Fortes Meyer, who brings over 25 years of expertise in helping people break free from the toxic cycle of sabotaging their own progress.

Tom dives deep into why so many of us repeatedly block our own success, even after major breakthroughs in personal or spiritual growth. He shares his own powerful story of transformation and the shocking realization that changed his life forever at the age of 27. But the focus isn’t just on enlightenment—it’s on the dark truth about why we *continuously* undermine ourselves.

One of the most eye-opening parts of this conversation is Tom’s explanation of the “protector” mechanism—a psychological defence formed in childhood to shield us from emotional pain. As adults, this same mechanism turns into a saboteur, causing us to reject success, love, and even happiness. Why? Because deep down, we fear the very things we desire most.

In this episode, we expose the hidden ways self-sabotage creeps into every area of our lives, from careers to relationships, and Tom provides actionable strategies to confront it head-on. Through healing our inner child, negotiating with this protector, and unearthing buried emotions, we can break free from the patterns that keep us stuck.

Tom also discusses the connection between personal healing and the collective consciousness, revealing how overcoming self-sabotage on an individual level has a ripple effect on the world around us. His upcoming platform, Unleashed, is designed to guide people through this exact journey of dismantling self-sabotage and reclaiming their lives.

Key Takeaways:

• Self-sabotage is the hidden enemy holding you back from true success.
• Your “protector” mechanism formed in childhood may now be sabotaging your life.
• Healing repressed emotions is the key to breaking the self-sabotage cycle.
• Personal growth not only frees you but also elevates collective consciousness.
• It’s time to stop sabotaging yourself and step into the life you truly want.